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<div class="usa-prose field field--name-field-uswds-body field--type-text-long field--label-hidden field__item"><p>Talking about bullying can be difficult for everyone. There are many ways to raise the subject of bullying and start the conversation before bullying happens or if you are concerned that it may be happening.</p>
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<li>To learn <strong>how to talk to kids</strong> about bullying, read these <a href="#how-to-talk">tips for parents and caregivers</a></li>
<li>To learn <strong>how to talk to an adult</strong> about bullying, read these <a href="#tips-youth">tips for youth</a></li>
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<h2 id="how-to-talk">How to Talk to Kids about Bullying Tips for Parents and Caregivers</h2>
<p>Children who experienced or witnessed bullying may want to discuss it with their parents, but not know how to bring it up. Some children may be afraid that theyll be “in trouble” for what happened. Others may feel embarrassment or shame. A parent may notice changes in their childs behavior and find it difficult to talk about it in a way that doesnt make their child feel uncomfortable.<br>
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<p>Dont wait for bullying to happen before you talk about it. According to the <a href="https://nces.ed.gov/programs/coe/indicator/a10">Indicators of School Crime and Safety Report</a>, 22% of U.S. students aged 12-18 reported being bullied at school in 2019. Children can be afraid to talk about bullying with their family. Parents create trust with children by initiating open, honest discussions. These dialogues provide opportunities to communicate values and learn about your childs experience. They make it easier for your children to turn to you if they witness or experience bullying.</p>
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<p>Initiate talks in the car, before or after homework, over dinner or breakfast, or when doing something together. Keep it casual and curious. Talk about the daily schedule. Listen. Show that you trust them. Ask open ended questions about their day or activities.</p>
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<li>What was the best and worst thing that happened to you today?</li>
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<p>For instance, share an age-appropriate story about bullying you experienced or witnessed. &nbsp;Talk about how it was distressing, awkward, scary, upsetting, or left you with questions. Start with, “Hey, did I tell you about…?”</p>
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<p>Bring up the subject of bullying as if it were a news item or a subject you want to learn more about. <strong> </strong></p>
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<li>Ive been hearing about cyberbullying a lot lately. Have you ever seen it? How did they handle it? What would you have done?</li>
<li>Some of my friends were talking about bullying happening at their childs school. Do you ever see any bullying happening? How did the school deal with it? What did you think of that?</li>
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<p>Validate their feelings. Listen without judgement. Ask them some questions to get a feel for what they may need. Learn more about how <a href="https://www.stopbullying.gov/resources/research-resources/bystanders-are-essential">bystanders can stop or respond to bullying</a>.</p>
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<p>Ask open-ended questions to get more information about what happened, so you can help them learn how to identify bullying.</p>
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<li>Where did this happen?</li>
<li>What was going on right before this happened?</li>
<li>How did the child being bullied react? Were they hurt or upset? <em>(Bullying and teasing are different. If someone was upset by it, then it is likely bullying. Watch this video on </em><a href="https://youtu.be/6gi3f3E1D14"><em>the difference between bullying and teasing</em></a><em>.)</em></li>
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<li>Do they normally get along or what is their general relationship to each other?</li>
<li>How did the others who were there react when it happened?</li>
<li>How would you have felt if it had happened to you?</li>
<li>Do you think this incident was meant to make someone look bad? <em>(If yes, it was probably bullying.)</em></li>
<li>Do you think the person doing it wanted to purposely exclude or humiliate the other person? <em>(If yes, it was probably bullying.)</em></li>
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<p>Stay calm. Ask them questions as the goal is to hear about their experience, provide support, and to help prevent it from happening again. Determine if you need to talk to the school about it. Try to understand if there is a power imbalance between the one who bullied and the one who was bullied. A power imbalance is not limited to physical strength. It is sometimes not easily recognized. Learn more about <a href="https://www.stopbullying.gov/cyberbullying/how-to-report">what to do when your child has been cyberbullied</a>.</p>
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<p>Stay calm. Be open and listen. Ask questions. The goal is to help them learn from this and work through the reasons they did it so you can help them find other, healthy ways to deal with their feelings or situations that come up. You will also need to work with the school or parents to deal with it. Bullying is a behavior that can be changed. Your child will need help and support to learn new behaviors.</p>
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<li>Looking back, are there other ways you couldve handled this?</li>
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<li>Bullying is not ok. Its important that we address this. If you were the one who had been bullied, what would you want to happen to make things better?</li>
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<p>If youve been bullied, witnessed bullying, or bullied someone, you could use some support to deal with it. The first step is talking to a trusted adult about what you went through. This could be a parent, another family member, a friends parent, a teacher, coach, faith leader, or school counselor. Read some of the tips below to help you get started. Check out the <a href="https://www.stopbullying.gov/videos-social-media">videos</a> for more <a href="https://www.stopbullying.gov/blog/2020/12/16/videos-help-you-talk-your-kids-about-bullying">examples</a>.<br>
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<p>You could say something like “Dad, something happened today…” or “I saw something today…” or “I did something today and I want to talk about it.” The most important thing is to talk to someone you trust about it. Its ok if you blurt it out or dont know what to say just talk about it.</p>
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