Use _remote_is_local=True for local connection in synchronize (#40833)

* All instances of local connection should use _remote_is_local=True. Fixes #40551

* Switch to instance attribute for synchronize

* Add test that shows that synchronize _remote_is_local addresses tmpdir building

test/units/plugins/action/test_synchronize.py

@@ -42,6 +42,10 @@ with open('task_vars.json', 'wb') as f:
 '''
 
 
+class BreakPoint(Exception):
+    pass
+
+
 class TaskMock(object):
     args = {'src': u'/tmp/deleteme',
             'dest': '/tmp/deleteme',
@@ -246,3 +250,15 @@ class TestSynchronizeAction(unittest.TestCase):
         # delegate to other remote host with su enabled
         x = SynchronizeTester()
         x.runtest(fixturepath=os.path.join(self.fixturedir, 'delegate_remote_su'))
+
+    @patch.object(ActionModule, '_low_level_execute_command', side_effect=BreakPoint)
+    @patch.object(ActionModule, '_remote_expand_user', side_effect=ActionModule._remote_expand_user, autospec=True)
+    def test_remote_user_not_in_local_tmpdir(self, spy_remote_expand_user, ll_ec):
+        x = SynchronizeTester()
+        SAM = ActionModule(x.task, x.connection, x._play_context,
+                           x.loader, x.templar, x.shared_loader_obj)
+        try:
+            SAM.run(task_vars={'hostvars': {'foo': {}, 'localhost': {}}, 'inventory_hostname': 'foo'})
+        except BreakPoint:
+            pass
+        self.assertEqual(spy_remote_expand_user.call_count, 0)